Sunday, November 17, 2013

it takes 2 hands to clap

It's Sunday again,
and right now I'm on the way down to Suntec with the parents.
Yups, I'm bringing them shopping ! 
( truth is, I bought a turtle neck for dad ytd but he say the size don fit and so we're heading down to get a change) 

And so, I'm feeling kinda like bored.
forgot to bring any useful reading out,
and therefore decided to blog. 
I'm not sure what is it that I'm looking to blog, or what I want to say for that matter.

I just thought I'll update you abt my week! 
I had lunch at bishan with Calvin on Friday. 
that one day that I'm free from work,
and after I've accompanied mom for her review. 
I know this bro of mine some 1 year back and when we are working tgt,
we always almost end up in some form of intense discussion that will mostly have me feeling kinda pissed. 

now, don get me wrong,
I don't dislike my friend,
It's just naturally me to get all rifled UP?
u can say that I'm competitive or whatever degradory vocab u are now formulating in your brain,
I'm fine with it.
( you just fail to see that you are also like that. it's human nature to react but it's a matter of choice to exercise control) 

but I know for  sure that
anger, petty behaviors and retaliation are a matter of choice 
it takes 2 hands to clap both in a healthy r/s as well as in arguments. 
no one can be ENTIRELY right. 

and so , that's  e complex r/s I have w my brudders 
I need not be there w u all the time
I need not always agree w you
you need not always agree w me,
you broaden my perspective by pissingg me off,
but I know I can count on you to be there for me when I need an opinion or two.😘 

that being said,
I'm all ready to protect this fragile heart of mine,
and therefore even though I certainly don't have a haters list ( that's absolutely lame, tiring and superbly childish, unless you are saying that I have a brain of 12) 
I do, regrettably, decided to give up on individuals who has first given up on themselves. I put up with a fight, but like I said it takes 2 hands to clap,
you just can't always be right :)

On a slightly more random note,
Babe and I travel to Zion road for nasi Padang ytd!
It's pretty good actually,especially for people who can't take spiciness,
this is where you should go!
oh and did I mention that It only cost $18? 

nevertheless, I still find the dishes very 'Singaporean' I'm totally missing the aunthentic nasi Padang that I had w the boy at batam island some 2 years back.
trays of food were lay before us
and most of them ? I didn even see it in Singapore before!
I wish I get to eat that here in Singapore, soon.
I'm sure it's just hidden somewhere waiting to be uncovered by me. 

On the same note of food,
reg and I are going for Jamaican This Tuesday! 
will update again about our experience. 

Okays,
I'm reaching city hall soon,
better go. 

[ winter shopping is too ex.
let's get a couple beanie and rock the socks of the easterners. 
southern folk jamming to the beat of the old china. 
im just being random,
but you can just clap along ! 
#soweirdiknow. lol ]